BUDGETING THAT REALLY WORKS
Tools and Best Practices for Everyday Life
PERSONAL FINANCE
Fabian Agore
8/28/20252 min read


If you’ve ever opened your banking app mid-month and thought, Wait, where did all my money go?, you’re not alone. Most of us don’t overspend on purpose—it just kind of slips away. A snack here, an online order there, a surprise bill, and suddenly payday feels like it was months ago. That’s where budgeting comes in. Not the boring, spreadsheet-all-day kind. A real, practical system that fits your life and makes money less stressful.
Step 1: See the Big Picture
Imagine this: your salary comes in, you pay your bills, buy groceries, hang out with friends… then poof, you’re broke. The problem isn’t that you’re “bad with money.” It’s that you don’t know exactly where it’s going.
Start small. Jot down your income, your must-pay bills (food stuff, utilities, subscriptions you actually use), and then your “flex money” (the fun stuff). Even a rough list is a game-changer—you’ll suddenly see where things are slipping.
Step 2: Pick a System That Fits You
Think of budgeting methods like workout plans—what works for one person might not work for you. The trick is finding one you’ll actually stick with:
• 50/30/20 Rule: If you don’t want to overthink it, this is gold. 50% of your income goes to needs, 30% to wants, and 20% to savings/debt. Easy.
• Zero-Based Budgeting: Every naira goes into something important. If you like detail and hate surprises, this keeps you fully in control.
• Pay Yourself First: Want to save but always forget? Move money to savings right after receiving your salary, then live off the rest. No excuses.
Think about your habits. If you love simplicity, go with 50/30/20. If you’re more of a planner, try zero-based.
Step 3: Use Tools That Do the Heavy Lifting
Let’s be honest: nobody wants to write down every purchase of petrol you buy or snack purchase. That’s where tools help:
• Apps like Mint and YNAB: They connect to your accounts and show you where your money’s going without you doing all the math.
• Spreadsheets: If you’re a DIY type, grab a free Google Sheet template.
• Cash Envelopes: Old-school but effective. If you constantly overswipe your card, envelopes with actual cash set boundaries you can’t ignore.
Step 4: Automate What You Can
Set up automatic bill pay and automatic transfers to savings. That way, you don’t even have to think about it—it just happens. For example, if N100k automatically goes into your savings every month, that’s N1.2m year without lifting a finger.
Step 5: Check In Once a Month
Think of it like a quick health check. Once a month, sit down with your bank app and ask: Did this month feel tight? Did I overspend in one category? What do I want to adjust? Some people call this a “money date.” It doesn’t have to be serious—grab snack or a drink and take 15 minutes.
Pro Tips for Real Life
• Start with one leak. If eating out eats your budget, cap it and cook more. Don’t try to fix everything at once.
• Build a mini emergency fund. Even N20k a week adds up. That way, when your car battery dies, you’re not panicking.
• Reward yourself. Hit a savings goal? Treat yourself to something small. It keeps momentum going.
The Bottom Line
Budgeting isn’t about restriction—it’s about freedom. Freedom to say “yes” to hanging out with friends without worrying if it’ll wreck your rent savings. Freedom to save for trips, new phone, or just peace of mind. You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to start.